All,
I just heard the following :
You're only unhappy because you don't want to face reality
I pondered this for a moment. I really got it.
It was from the following : Shut Up Stop Whining & Get A Life
Think about it. You can only really change your life if you decide you've had enough. You have to realise that you are the one totally in control and responsible for what you get. Why did this really sink in?
I've been unhappy, why because I didn't want to face up to my current situation. What that I desperately wanted to change, but didn't want to enough so that I would. Well guess what, once you start taking control and start making even the smallest of changes...YOU FEEL BETTER!
I think most of us have heard by now of writing down your goals and taking action. How many of us really take action?
A small action is a small change If you have a goal of owning a new car i.e. Porsche. What is a small action - booking a test drive. How many of you, walk into the garage and take a look and book that test drive? If you are uncomfortable..that is good. If you can complete the drive, you are beginning to tell yourself I'm worthy of a car like this.
I remember going into my 1st Porsche garage, my heart was beating before I'd even opened the door. Once I just sat down and said I know nothing except I want a Porsche and it has to be a convertible, everything else was easy as pie. I got to choose my Porsche there and then. Stuff did come up, but I cleared it. More on that tomorrow.
Another example, you want a flat/house. What is stopping you of booking an appointment to look around the type of houses that you want to life in. If you can't just look around. Do you really want a house like that? What are you telling yourself if you can't?
Listen to the can't, shouldn't, wouldn't, musts and needs. If a friend were to ask you why didn't you do that. What are you're excuses? Time to get rid of them!!
Happy Travels
A
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